How should I handle all the cheating in my marriage?

A female age 36-40, *aluf writes:

After i forund out that he was cheating i decided that i should try to work it out first b4 walking away,he suggested that we get a neutral person whom we can talk to like therapy, i agreed.The following week he gave me money and told me to go and give his mother, i went there with our 6mnth old son so that she can see him as she had nt seen him since he was born,when i got there i was told by his mother that my husband is married to another woman and they have two kids, one is 15 and the other is 11. i am 25 yrs old and he is 13 years older. at the beginning of our relationship 3yrs ago he lied and said he is single and hav 1 child but have brokken up with the mother. his mother told me that if i am telling myself that i am his wife i must know that i am a second wife. i was so embarassed when she mentioned that the cups we are using( when having some tea) were bought by her,it was almost like she had been waiting for an oppotunity to tell me where to get off.she even thretten to kill me is i dont liave her son alone. i tried to explain to her that i did not know of all that which she was telling me, and i was married to him because he sent people to come and pay the bridal price to my father,and the people who came never mentioned that he had a wife, his two aunts one from his father's side and one from his mother's side never mentioned that he has another wife.and wen i told her this she said she did not know that i was married to her son.

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