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Why would they label me a stalker?

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Question - (17 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My nickname is Rocco

I have talk to this girl and she labeled me a stalker the other day, meet her on myspace and we talked I got her digits and we would text I told her my school situation and she cracked a joke but then it was like we would text everyday to every few days to barely nothing it has me soo confused I texted her what's up and her boyfriend told me to stop stalking her

why would they label me as a stalker

rocco

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (17 February 2010):

Honeypie agony auntShe has a boyfriend, the boyfriend found out about you, she is cutting you loose so he won't be mad..

If a girl is taken, back off. It onle means drama if you don't.

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2010):

k_c100 agony auntTo put it simply - her boyfriend thought you were interested in his girl because you were texting her and talking to her a lot, so he got worried that something might happen between you both so he called you a stalker to stop you from contacting her again.

This girl clearly is not interested in you and must have told her boyfriend something along the lines of this "God Rocco is so annoying, he wont stop texting me all the time" - she will have exaggerated and tried to make you look bad so it wouldnt make her boyfriend jealous that she was texting another guy. So when he finds out some other guy is texting his girlfriend, he gets annoyed and calls you a stalker to make sure you dont bother her anymore.

Dont worry about it, your not a stalker and I'm sure no-one really thinks that about you. Just try not to text girls that are in relationships anymore unless you knew the girl before she got her boyfriend and you are good friends! Texting girls that are in relationships is always a bad idea unless you are good friends, otherwise you are just going to get yourself into trouble with the boyfriends!

I hope this helps and good luck!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2010):

Her boyfriend got worried about you, so to get you to stay away she called you a stalker. You're better off not knowing this girl. Take my word for that.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010):

The fact that she has a boyfriend is what's up. No, you're not a stalker. She simply isn't interested and is just saying that to get you to leave her alone.

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