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30-35,
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writes:There's this girl that I've had a crush on for a long time. She knows I like her (and basically all our mutual friends), and for a brief time she liked me (I wasn't aware of this until it was too late) but I was too nervous to ask her out. She's one of my closest friends and I'm afraid that if this crush continues the way it is it may ruin that friendship. At the same time, however, I know these feelings for her will not go away simply overnight.It has come to the point where I can't stop thinking about her and hurts to also know she doesn't feel the same way and probably never will anymore. What should I do?
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reader, mystiquek  +, writes (17 February 2010):
 Like Caringguy says, you can either sit back in agony never knowing, or you can be bold and brave, tell her of your feelings. You have a 50/50 chance right? And sometimes in life you have to be willing to take a chance to get what you want. The worst that will happen is that she doesn't share your feelings, but at least you'll know. Otherwise, you might watch her walk off with another guy, never knowing how you feel. So what's it going to be?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 February 2010):
You have a choice. You can either go for broke, tell her how you feel and see what she says, or you will have to slow your contact down with her so you can get over her.
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