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writes:I need some input from the more experienced. Well I've been with my boyfriend for about four months now and I love him very much. We waited two months to have sex, I am 17, and he's 18. {Trust me two months is a long time for people our age now adays}Well my question is, my boyfriends favorite thing is to get head. (a bj) He just loooooooves it, but not from me. {not his words exactly but I feel insecure}No matter how big or how small, I've never seem to ever be able to hack it. I always feel myself coughing, or choking, eyes watering.. especially when I deep throat.I was wondering if there was a certain position, I lay in or he lays in while I'm doing it to make it easier.. or any other tips to help me out! Thank you.
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reader, kelsey18  +, writes (17 February 2010):
 I've never given head i know how too but i've never done it properly. Its been a personal choice ive only ever been 'seeing' people and i'd only be up for giving a blow job if i was in love with somebody and in a relationship with that person. I just think the idea of it is disgusting but if someone i loved really wanted me too i would...i would never deepthroat though. Maybe you should give head but only take as much of the penis as you feel comfortable with. Everyone has different gag reflexes at the back of thier throat some better than others. personally i gag even when i brush the back of my tounge with a toothbrush,so mine are rubbish. Just don't deepthroat would be my advice,the average mouth is half the size of the average penis length ways so deepthroating is a challenge. Giving head can b just as exciting when your not letting the whole thing dissapear in your mouth. Just concentrate on the end of the penis with your tounge and make sure you use plenty of saliva lick the shaft a lot. the wetter the better. And don't be afraid to use your hands a little he won't think your cheating. x
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (17 February 2010):
 How often have you given him head because you'll only learn to control your gag reflex with practice, even try on random objects that are roughly the same size/shape. Before starting you need to make sure that you're properly relaxed and don't tense up while doing it. Use throat losanges to open your throat.
Instead of deep throating you can use your hands with loads of lube and/or spit, it creates an illusion if you get good at it where your man won't be able to tell where your moth ends and hands begin.
good luck
xx
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