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How can I calm my nerves around him?

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Question - (17 February 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I posted a question recently, regarding a guy who i wasnt sure how to move things forward with or how he feels about me.

This has changed, having had a deep conversation last night we talked about what we each look for in a relationship. We expressed how we felt about each other and agreed to take it slow... but he's suggested that over the weekend, I go to a party with him and sleep over at his - without any sexual intercourse as he does have respect for me! But just to lay next to each other, talk and have a nice time which sounds great to me.

The thing is, I am incredibly nervous around him. I don't know how on earth I will calm my nerves! I get really lost for words and stutter etc, when i'm with him. I just don't know how i'll cope, is there anything I can do? I just want to be confident and enjoy the night in his company.

Thanks for any responses x

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A female reader, missfussy Ireland +, writes (17 February 2010):

it's great dat u n dis guy had dat discussion because now u both no where u stand. i understand wen u say ur nervous around him i used 2 b like dat with my last botfriend but just enjoy dat time u get together just the 2 of you. u say ur going to a party so have a few drinks to calm ur nerves it'll help u relax a bit more (not 2 many tho u dnt wanna luk like a drunken mess lol)and then just simply enjoy each others company!! hope u great time together!! :)

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