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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:The other day i went cinema with a group of friends i sat next to my ex, we flirt with each other but he's a bit hesitant and says he would never want to take advantage of me so he pulls back sometimes. Theres nothing wrong with friends flirting he says. In the cinema my hand was on his thigh and my fingertips were tracing letters on his thigh later he placed his hand on my thigh his fingertips tracing after a while he'd move his hand, he later asked me if i was ok i said yh, then he did it again the third time his hand moved higher than usual i had mixed feelings worrying he'd go to high but also enjoying the contact since i never do anything with guys,he's the only boy i would like bein physical with, he did not go to high luckily. It was strange because whenever he touches me he's always hesitant and looks scared and says he's worried he's leading me on, and sometimes when i flirt or egg him on he'll be like i respect u. i remember when he first touched me it lasted a sec and he moved his hand so quick as if he got burnt. i no he doesn't like me and i just want a little bit of fun, but he sometimes acts like he does. i know he will never take advantage of me, whenever we mess around he'll stop quickly because we never even kissed during our relationship.Does he find me sexy and wants to or is he just touching me because he knows i want him to and he feels bad turning me down. All we do is feel each other up a bit nothing too much. I already know he doesn't like me more than a friend but i like the contact
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reader, SaphiraGold16 +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Your 16-17 years old your bound to want to explore your sexual side.
If neither of you want a relationship and just "a bit of fun" make that clear from the start so you both know whats going on.
Just make sure you can handle the "bit of fun" and won't be hurt if it doesnt lead to anything more.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 February 2010):
He is your ex. He is an ex for a reason. It didn't work out before. If you continue with this, you'll end up used and hurt.
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