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He flirts with my best friend! How can I deal with it?

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Question - (17 February 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2010)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

How do i stop being jealous of my ex boyfriend flirting with my bestfriend?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010):

Talk to him about it. Let him know it bothers you. He might just have a flirtatious personality.

My wife is a bit flirtatious as well and flirts with one of my best friends whenever we're over at his place for a party. It's just harmless fun for them. And that could be all it is for him to. At the end of the night, who does he go home with?

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A female reader, lavish United States +, writes (17 February 2010):

I agree with Caringuy that you should stop all contact with him. You should also tell you friend about it too, plus you guys are best friend, you should be able to bring this up to her. IF she is truly your good friend she would stop or not do it in front of you. Your friend should respect your feelings and not try to hurt you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010):

So many guys will flirt with your best friend specifically to make you jealous - either to show you he's over you, find out if you're over him, try to get you back or just get revenge. It's a pretty big coincidence (but still possible) that he is actually interested in your friend now. But I think you can deal with your jealousy by telling yourself (while he's flirting with her) that he's doing it to get to you.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2010):

I think you need to cut contact with him as much as possible. Limit everything you can to avoid being near him. And also spend some time on yourself as you try to get over him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010):

talk to him about it ! ask him how he feels about your friend. whatever you do dont just forget it, you have to do something about it before it gets too late

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