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anonymous
writes:hi well iv been with my boyfriend 2 years and we have a daughter together who is 11months old the thing is we keep arguing and i feel like im beginning to hate him i do love him and we got engaged a few months ago but im not happy anymore and i feel like he isnt happy even though he says he is and we both keep ending it but then getting back together we dont have sex like we used to and when we do i dont feel like theres love between us i dont know if i want to be with him anymore my heads a mess and i dont know what to do please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010): Your so young, why waste your time with someone your not completely in-love with. Thats not fair to either of you! These should be some of the best years of your life and you don't seem to be enjoying them. I was in a similar situation, with someone for 3yrs his child lived with us full-time and called me mom (not the same as your situation but similar) we were engaged had our wedding done planned and payed for.. and 2 months before the wedding i realized i was making a horrible mistake, and i wasn't happy all we did was fight.. and that i needed to do what was best for me and what would make me happy and that was to leave him and move on. I must say it was the best decision i have ever made, i don't regret it for one second. You know what you need to do.. find the strength. You can do it.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 February 2010):
End it now. This isn't going to work out if all you've done is argue, end it and get back together. He's not Mr Right.
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