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She was more into me in the beginning and now the tables have turned!

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Question - (17 February 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey me and my girl have been goin out for 1 year and 7months now and in the beggining she made me feel as If I was her world.She actually told me I was her second proirity in life.she used to be so jealous for me (cute jealousy) and alwayz accused me of cheating,and always asked if I loved her.Now every time I call she's busy,or has to call me back but never does,and she puts her phone on vibrate and all when she's with me.Now the tables are turned I'm jealous for her but really love her and want.Her back please help.....

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010):

you might be giving her too much attention. Sometimes my girlfriend contacts me too much and I just don't reply until later. When she doesn't contact me at all the entire day, I miss her.

You also might be acting clingy. You should do an experiment and for a week, don't contact her until she contacts you. I bet she'll dial you right up after not hearing from you.

Also, women want a man who can take care of them. If you are always bending to her will and not standing up to her or acting predictably, you might not be attracting her the same way you used to.

Think back about what you were like when she first became attracted to you and think about what you're like now. You might try to act that way again and see what happens.

If none of this works, you need to ask her about it.

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