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writes:well it all really started last year. i finally got my first boyfriend. things were going great until summer came around. one day me and him went to the beach for our friends' birthday party. well the whole time we were there we got to tlk like twice cause he was way too busy showing everyone a fighting style he knew. that was the biggest thing that upseted me last summer. well as the summer went by we never really spent any time together. oh but i guess he can go visit his best friend almost everyday. anyway one day i decided that enough was enough, so i called him to come over to my house so we could. aparently it was okay cause he was on his way to best friends' house anyway. when he got to my house we tlked a little and i broke up with him. he left just as he came. as if nothing happened. okay so now to present time. i have a new boyfriend, but now my ex wants to spend like every weekend together with me and i'm like, "where was this when we were going out"?! anyway now i feel like i still have feelings for him but i don't want to be put through that again. it's like i love him but i don't love wat he does. so i'm asking, wat should i do? leave my new boyfriend and be with him again? or tell my old boyfriend to just leave me alone? please help me? i don't know where else to turn =(
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 February 2010):
Your ex is an ex for a reason. It wasn't working out. Leave him in the past. As for this new guy, think very carefully about whether you want to be with him or not. Maybe you would do better to spend time alone and work out what you really want.
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