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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for just over a week now. We have been best friends for a year and a half so things have moved pretty quickly as we trust each other and care about each other alot! we also live together so we see each other all the time (but also give ourselves our own space)Things get pretty heated in the bedroom and recently he has been keen to pleasure me (everything but sex so far) and he is amazing he knows exactly what to do so its not him! the problem is i just cant climax. He was going for almost an hour the other day and i kept feeling like i was going to but didnt! some times when i get to that 'pee' stage i dont want to pee on him so it may be that im holding back. I dont want to hurt his feelings or make him feel like hes not good enough because hes brilliant! my hands and teeth go fuzzy and i feel like iv run a marathon afterwards as im so worn out and my legs turn to jelly! do i just need to be a bit more confident and stop worrying or shall i just accept that i cant cum because i know some women cant!please help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010): I've known women who couldn't come except from intense stimulation via vibrators. It happens. Don't feel bad, but if something like that helps you, speak up to him so that he can do something about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010): Omg I'm exactly the same, I'm relieved it's not just me
not really an answer sorryy lol
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 February 2010):
No, it's not you. It's not him either. And any woman can cum. It's all about your state of mind. First of all, quit worrying about it. You won't orgasm if you worry or if you try to hard. You need to be totally relaxed and care free. Then you need to do some experimenting and just find out what you really like. That's the extent of my advice, and I'm sure there will be women on here who know way more than me. But all I can say is that it seems to be linked to your state of mind. Relax!
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