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Will he please me or keep teasing me?

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Question - (17 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 February 2010)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I'm having an affair with a man who's been married for 16yrs. I'm not proud of it but, I can't stop myself.. I get near him and I'm instantly heating up and wanting him more and more. We have had 8 encounters set with his boundaries,he won't put himself in me. The last time we were together, he teased me by, just putting a little of him in me and then went down on me! Which was one of his boundaries, my question is... does he want to just torment me because he knows I want him sooo bad or what. I'm hoping hee will give in and make love to me.

I don't want him to leave his family, I just really want sex from him! Any thoughts on why he's teasing me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010):

he's playing games with both his wife and you. you are enjoying the game as much as he is. who will win? you both need to grow up!

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A female reader, kelsey18 United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2010):

kelsey18 agony auntI think you should have some consideration for his wife, how would you feel if that was your husand? i could understand if you were in love with him, but your not you just want sex. go get that from someone else without any attatchments. and as far as the teasing goes hes doing it because he knows he can-he knows what it does to you, he won't give you sex thats why hes set his boundaries. And if he does (which i doubt he will) Hes been married 16 years and after that amount of time his sexual relationship with his wife may have disintegrated a little. So he'll be using you for what he can't get at home.Don't be second best-and easy x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2010):

Because he's laughing at you. He's using you as far as he can and is just laughing at you and his own wife. Chances are he won't give you what you want because he knows what you want and prefers that you are his toy that he can play with.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010):

He maybe feels he is not cheating 'properly' on his poor, poor wife if he doesn't go the 'whole way'.

What you are doing is despicable.

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