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writes:how can one reconcile with losing the only one they've ever been with who they felt unquestionably comforted by the act of sleeping next to? maybe that seems like a silly question to you, but the loss is a big deal to me and i don't know if i'll ever find something that felt like that again. one thing i should say is that it is not possible for the two of us to ever ever ever get back together again.
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reader, shez10  +, writes (17 February 2010):
I had exactly the same feeling, I was with somebody for 4 years and i loved him soooooo much i couldnt even look at another person ! I felt so low at this point that i couldnt help crying over our seperation, and it worked out quite wierd because i never thought i would be able to experience the love and commitment i had again in fact i didnt even want another relationship i just wanted to be on my own and have my own space. However within 4 weeks of being apart from him i met someone in work and we got chatting and he was really funny, he took me out but it was only like mates i didnt even expect anything to happen between us as he was always caring towards me and i would even bore him talking about my x but we ended up being in a relationship with eachother. Its crazy how evrthing worked out. From being sooo low and lonely I honestly never thought i could love someone as much as i did. It was great. What im trying to say is not to loose hope because things happen for a reason and im a tru believer that their is a mr right for you somewhere and he will pop up when u least expect it :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 February 2010):
You will find something, but it will just take time. You need to throw yourself into your own life again. Go out, meet people, enjoy doing your own thing and really just spend time loving yourself and having fun. One day you'll meet an even better person and you won't even remember the one who has caused you to feel this way. It's all about time and just loving yourself.
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