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writes:I have been seeing this girl and she thinks she might be pregnant, I did what i thought was right and reminded her that I love her and that no matter what happens i will be there for her, is there anything I can do or say to help? she says i keep reminding her of the situation to much and she doesnt want to think about it i said il give her some space and havnt spoken to her, but i am very worried about her what should i call her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah she went to the doctors and she said that they have to wait a month 2 find out for sure, but i got a text from her last night saying that she 99% sure she aint pregnant as she had her period, which we both thinks is weird as she had hers last week? so who knows, i realise i was jumping the gun but i already had a crazy week anyway whith starting a new job trying to get the car fixed and a couple of other things, thanks everyone for your help, :)
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reader, called Steve +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Hope things have gone ok - you should know by now the results... she may just be stressing out but just be there for her man, let her know you care!
Let us know how you've gone on ok?
Steve
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni sent her a text earlier just asking if shes ok and she has not messaged me back, i was gona call her but i found out shes going to the doctors 2morow morning, i finish work at 12 so i was gona call her, but i dont wanna push her away, i know she scared but i dont think she realises that it effects me to, i love her and dont wanna make things worse!
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reader, vamp-gal +, writes (17 February 2010):
 I agree with the other two, find out for definate if she is pregnant.
The thing is if she is pregnant, it's not going to go away, she has to think about this and find out what she wants to do.
Depending on whether she is or not, all you really need to do is be there for her and be a father. There's not much more anyone can ask from you, just be apart of the childs life.
But like the uncles before me have said, you can't do much without knowing for sure. You need to talk to her again, even if she doesn't want to talk about it you both need to know what's going on.
Good Luck,
Hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni already booked her a doctors appointment in a couple of days time, I just feel like there has to be something I can do or say. once shes been to the doctors il repy if it was a false alarm or not. thanks for the advice. :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 February 2010):
The first thing that needs to happen is that she finds out whether she is pregnant or not. There isn't anything else you can say or do until you know for sure whether she is or not.
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reader, called Steve +, writes (17 February 2010):
First things first - she needs to be sure whether there is a pregnancy or not.
Pregnancy Test? The Doctors then if results are positive to have it confirmed...
Then you need to plan what you're going to do...
Without the first step there is no point making gambles and saying things that may not be relevant!
Steve
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