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writes:[Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post]Question 1Hi, i have recently got left buy my girlfriend of two years, Yesterday she said she wants to experience the fun of high school. I am leaving her alone like she wants and she is starting to see another guy. i can not stand seeing them together or me being without her. i want her back more than anything and i can not think of my life without her. I have not been hanging out with my friends for most of her and my relationship. at school i only talk to her and at night i only hang out with her. i have read a lot of things online about dealing with the loss. But one thing i can not seem to figure out is how am i going to get back into the loop of seeing other people. How am i going to get back to meeting new girls. i just feel empty and that there is no hope for me finding another girl. I am graduating in four months and plan to go to college. What steps should i take to get back into the loop of girls and ever get back to being happyAll answers are taken into full consideration thank you so much17andconfusedQuestion 2I have recently broke up with my girlfriend she told me she needed a break to think about things an she is now starting to see another guy and says she loves me and wants me to be happy. She was texting me tonight telling me she wish she wouldnt have broke up with me and i (acted)like this is what i wanted and that i was happy now having a new job and a car and having straight A's in my senior year. she said she was proud of me and said that this will be better for the both of us. then i said i was happy without her and i would be better off without her acting happy. she then asked me if i would have feelings against her moving on. Does this mean she is going for the new guy in her life. is there anything i should do differently if i want her back into my life or is it to late ? will she move on with him and have a fun new exciting relationship and forget about her and I's ? if there is anything i can do to try win her back without begging what would i be? letting her see me with a new girl? i am open for all suggestions thank you very much
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 You need to take back control of your life again. Nobody owes you in this world and you need to seek your own happiness.You don't have to depend on others to make you happy.
Go out with your friends and feel free and have fun and enjoy life. In time , your problems will not appear to be so big as to be insurmountable.
You will live on and find another girl in your life. Time is a great healer.
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