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female
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anonymous
writes:Hiya I have been going out with my bf for 4 years now and it feels like lately he is not interested. When we are together we are fine and he is really lovely to me but when he goes home to his mothers he ignore me for a couple of days and then rings me with an excuse like his phone was playing up yet it never does when he is with me or his phone never rang or he lost it. It happens randomly its not all the time its now again and whenever i have looked on his phone there has been no signs of him cheating! I dnt get why it gets like that whether it is coz we do spend a lot of time together then randomly it will just happen n he dnt ring me text me or nothing and now when he does it i just dnt text or ring him back but nothing happens still. I love him so much and i dnt want our relationship to fail. We have talked about it a couple of times when he gets back in touch with me after a couple of days but it happens again another time and sometimes it can be up to 2/3 months till he does it again. Im really upset coz we havent had an argument or something he will say he going to the gym or hang with his mates but then not contact me at all for a couple of days which i find extremly wierd. He is really caring when he is with me which is why i feel so confused. Please please give me some advice and if anybody else has experienced it to :(
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reader, Psychology101  +, writes (17 February 2010):
Why not just ask him?
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