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My boyfriend wants to watch a sex video of his friend, is this bad or not?

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Question - (17 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2010)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i m in a long distance and committed relationship.recently i and my bf were chatting through sms and when we were talking,he was telling me that how he knows some guys who cheat their gf by keeping hidden cameras and taking video and selling them.i said its really bad..and hope u wouldn't be watching it.he said whats the harm even if i watch those videos !i mean this frustrated me.readers u only tell is it good to watch a sex video of a friend and his gf.no!but my bf says i dont know that girl anyway so whats the harm!and if his friend is showing deliberately then there's no problem to watch.but i think its bad.plz tell me is it bad or not?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010):

What exactly is a "long distance commmitted relationship" at 16 or 17? Not only is what he is suggesting bad, immoral and illegal, he may be using you the same way too.

Under indian law if you or him are found in possession of these non-consensual porn things, you'd be in jail.

If you are having webcam sex with him be very aware that he may be recording those.

Its human to want to experiment with sexuality when you are teenager but at your age its best if your exploration is limited to your body by yourself. Boys need to be kept at an arm's length for now.

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A female reader, jaime90 Australia +, writes (17 February 2010):

jaime90 agony auntit is bad.. its terrible that his friends tape these girls doing such intimate things without there consent, and im sure they could get into a whole lot of trouble for it. you need to decide if you want a bf who thinks thats ok

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2010):

No, it's not good. And if his friends are like this, he probably is too. Dump him.

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