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writes:I have a question for any girls / women out there have you ever felt you were pregnant, if so before you found out if you were or not, how did you feel, what could of the man / boy have done to make things better for you? what did you think? X thank you X Reply to this Question
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reader, leogirl18  +, writes (19 February 2010):
To the 2nd part of your question: I think the guy should just do his best to be there for her. Go to the doctor appointments with her, love her and show you care and that your interested. I think a great gift would be something for the baby. This would really show you care.
But the best a guy could do is mean what he says. If he says he won't leave then don't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answers, in your perfect world what would the bloke have done to make things better, send flowers, give you space, keep telling you that he loves you and that your not alone? i realise all women are different but atleast il have a starting point :) Thank you again.
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reader, meg2989  +, writes (18 February 2010):
 I have had 3 pregnancy scares. Although for me it didnt really sink in. the first time, my breasts hurt terribly for two weeks, literally like they were goin ot fall off. I was seventeen at the time and fed 30 horses as a job, and when I'd go to put the bails of hay in the wheel barrow omg!!!! I couldn't hold them to my chest with out cringing and letting out a small gasp of pain let me tell you!(That was a true pregnancy and ended up a miscarriage.) The second time I felt very nauseated, but I was also under alot of stress so I think that had something ot do with it and my period was late. ( ended up not being pregnant) The third time I kept feeling like I was going to start my period but never did, I found out I was pregnant on my birthday, but sadly lost that one as well. (Just a coincedence, so please those are NOT signs that you are going to miscarry... lol. The men I was with at those times were all very discouraging and didnt help me at all. 2 of them broke up with me shortly after, even though I had dated them for a yr +. I think it would have been easier on me if they had just been nicer to me. Its not like I was trying to get pregnant, we were using protection but twice they figured out my birthcontrol dosage was not high enough and the other time we ripped a condom. I was just a "fertle mertle" lol.
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reader, leogirl18 +, writes (18 February 2010):
I have had maybe 3 pregnancy scares. I feel it is both exciting but scary wondering if you are pregnant. I am only 18 so that's why it is a little scary. I would like to be older when I have children. When I have thought I was pregnant, I worry and wait to be able to do a pregnancy test, and when I find out it is negative I am a little sad becuase even though there was nothing there, you feel a connection to something you want.
The best thing for a boyfriend to do is let the girl/woman know he won't leave her and that he will always take care of her (and mean it and do it).
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reader, Livejust2bJess +, writes (17 February 2010):
 I had 3 scares and then they were all negative and I was kind of relieved but kind of sad because it wouldve felt special and stuff to be a mom and then I had anthor one and it came back positive I'm now almost four months and there are few times u feel like crap during the beginning of noting sickness and get tired faster have mood swings and bad lower back pains but you get use to it and think your going through this for someone special... Your sharing a bond between you and your baby that no one else has or can share it's wonderful and beautiful and my boyfriend is still with me and going to be engaged soon
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010): I have had a couple of pregnancy scares. The stress of worrying you might be pregnant can make her period late even if she isn't pregnant, so she shouldn't worry about it too much if she is late. I was so worried one time that I even started feeling fake pregnancy symptoms and putting on a few kilos around my stomach.
It's best if she goes to a doctor for a blood test (much more reliable than at home pregnancy kits). And as for what you should say to help her - tell her you're not going anywhere and you'll be here for her no matter what, supporting her and ready to talk and listen anytime she needs.
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