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writes:ok im just gonna get straight into it, i dont no why but i am so nervous wen it comes 2 sex!!even as a young teen i never really experemented kissing was the height of it, im not a virgin now but i've only been wit one guy like 3 r 4 times n he's the only one i've ever done more than kissing with n each time was because i was drunk he never pressured me at all, but i've been seeing him for over a year now and i really do care for him alot and he wud really like for us 2 have a proper relationship but sex is stopping me from giving it a go with him. he's really been so nice about it and says that the sex doesnt matter 2 him dat he does loves me and thats all that matters but to me i think sex is an important part of a relationship and because i no he's been wit at least 10 other girls b4 me (one girl he was with for over 3 yrs) i just feel im not going to be enough for him, and that i could never compare to wat he had with her. i no i think 2 much into it all but even wen it comes 2 foreplay i couldnt imagine doing anything like that sober even wen im drunk im so nervous dat im not doing things right and i cnt enjoy any of it! any advice wud b great n really appriciated tanks!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010): hiya :)
well for a start if you are nervous when you are just away to have sex you need to find who you really are. im a virgin but want to have sex but im just the same as you i get nervous so i have been finding different ways to find out who i really am and try to build my confidence and self-esteem. it is quite difficult to do but at least give it a try. On the other hand if you really like this boy and want to have sex with him just tell him that you are nervous and he should understand hopefully. its hard to find the right guy. but if he is sweet and considerate to you, you shouldnt feel nervous. even just put the lights off so you cant see each other to much. i hope i helped keep me posted to see how you get on.
lovee mee :) x
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