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writes:i've been with this girl for a little over 4 months and things are going pretty well, we're very affectionate to eachother,we have great conversations, and she tells me all the time how much she likes me. the problem is that i cant stop being jealous of her ex boyfriends. her first boyfriend she was in love with and the second she dated for about 2 months and then that ended because he graduated from their college, i met her shortly after that. she speaks so highly of them, sometimes its so hard to get over the fact that shes had sex with other people before me. i really wish it did'nt bother me but it does. i feel like i cant pleasure her as well as they did (im not that good in bed). i feel like she can do better. i just want to stop caring about that stuff, what can i do to move past it?
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reader, Fionnlagh  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 Don't ever bring this up with her. Sometimes we have to bite the bullet pal. Just know that 'that' was then and 'this' is now.
You obviously love her or you wouldn't be thinking about it. Just be happy while you two are together ok.
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