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anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been great lately, except yesterday we got in a little argument because he reuined our new years plans and is doing something with his friends, I got a little upset over it but in the end I said it will be good for him, because he will be with his friends and ill have mine, he then told me that he feels like im always mad at him these days, I told him to not think that because im not mad at him and I am happy with him and that I only get upset when he ruins our already made plans. After that he didn't reply and he has been ignoring my messages and calls since yesterday, maybe this is way of saying he needs space I don't know. He is the type of guy who will miss me after a few days without talking, so I know I should just leave him for a while, but its just hard to deal with not knowing what's going on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): Well if you two already had plans I don't think he should have changed them. I would be mad too. He is being insensitive turning it against you when the truth is you have good reason to be irritated. He should at least be apologetic.
Whatever, so go out with your friends and have fun. I wouldn't be too sensitive toward him. He just changed his plans on you and then when you got rightly mad he stopped taking your calls. That's not nice. Teach him a lesson. If it takes him two days to get back to you, take at least two days to return his call. And if he tries to make plans to see you tell him you have made other plans and you are busy. Give him a taste of his own medicine, so he sees what it feels like. And that's that.
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