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writes:Okay so, two nights ago, I got drunk. But not over my head drunk, I still had a bit of consciousness intact.I was at a party and one of my guy friends, who I'm fairly close with, offered to take me home. I let him since it wasn't the first time. But, let me be clear. Nothing has ever happened between us before, we were strictly friends, but we're both single. Anyway, when we got to my stop, he got off the cab too and gave me a goodnight kiss on the lips. But it was safe. Just a peck.I don't really remember what happened after that, but we ended up in this abandoned house, and we sat in a corner. It was kind of dark. I remember he put my hand on his thing, and I gave him a handjob. And then we started making out and he fondled my breasts and I knew what was happening. Right now, I hate myself for not stopping any of it.Nothing more happened, thank god, but even so, I feel so guilty everytime I think about it.We've talked, and we're both fine with what happened and he's even asked for more. Surprisingly, I was not disgusted.But still, how do I shake off this feeling?By the way, I'm 13. And my friend's 15.
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reader, smiliek  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 May i ask where your parents were with all this? Firstly drinking underage, then performing sexual acts.. Honey, that guy used you. And if he was one year older, it would be classed as sexual assualt as he'd have been over the legal age. There are ages in law for a reason. You're 13, you should be hanging with friends and concentrating on school, the stuff that will set you up for the rest of your life. This boy just wants sex or similar from you, he's using you.. Tell him that you wont do anything else with him, and enjoy being a young teen. You only get this chance once, dont ruin it on guys
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reader, cian  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 Seriously, you need to focus on school at your age. Quit the sauce, get back on track! - that being said...
He's a hormonal teenager with a hard-on. Pretty much, any port-in-a-storm will help. He used you, girl.
How to shake it off... cold shower, shift in values (back to school or something well natured), and time. - Hopefully this is a lesson learned.
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reader, dersita  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 YOU ARE SO YOUNG! You need to STOP AND THINK girl! You're only 13!
You shake it off by just stopping! Dont let him be all up in your face. Get away from him! He'll only do you bad!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (23 December 2010):
 13 and getting drunk and giving handjobs... Man, and I thought I started young.
It's no surprise he wants more. He's a horny young man who just got a handjob from you while you both were making out. Why wouldn't he want more?
The truth is he took advantage of you. If you "don't remember" stuff that happened, then you were indeed more drunk than you think you were. I somehow think it's not so much guilt you're feeling, but the shame that comes with being sexually used.
This guy isn't a good friend.
Want to shake the feeling? Don't get drunk. Learn to control yourself. Don't trust anyone who suggests going into an abandoned house. Change your lifestyle. At this rate you're likely to end up worse off the next time this happens. If you don't change, it WILL happen again.
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