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Should I just accept that I'll never find someone who loves me?

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Question - (23 December 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 December 2010)
A age 30-35, * writes:

i know many of you here who have read my past posts realize that i needed to move on from my gf who has thrown me on an emotional roller coaster. Many of you also suggested i find someone new now thats the problem the way i got with my ex was through friends now i don't have friends i feel as if i am undesirable. i honestly don't think i'll ever have another shot at love. should i just accept the fact that i will never find someone who will love me? :(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2010):

Tell me about it. I broke up from my boyfriend and since then I'm just 'up down up down' and I can't think straight at all! To be honest I think we could have been amazing together...but it was too much online chatting, misunderstandings etc. I was also way too paranoid - but he wasn't very sensitive either.

All I do to comfort myself is tell myself "(my name) you're only 16!! you have YEARS to find the perfect guy, don't stress it. Let him come to you." I mean of course I don't say that exactly =P It's a thought process really.

I have been so depressed and sad since we broke up. I constantly want to say to him "can we try again? I want to be with you..." but I always stop myself because deep down I know that it wouldn't work..I wish it could but it really wouldn't. He thought differently to me...we just couldn't work.

I know that I will find love again, even if it takes a few years - at least I can have fun in the process! =D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010):

I know it may not feel this way now, but you are very young and you will find love again. Just concentrate on yourself and develop yourself. It's good that you have had some experience of love. Go out with friends and enjoy life. Love yourself. This is the time for that.

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A female reader, Tbosse South Africa +, writes (23 December 2010):

Tbosse agony auntStill very young and full of life,so young to give up in love. You'll find love, lots of it.goodluck and hey happy searching:-)

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A male reader, serenity80 United Kingdom +, writes (23 December 2010):

You're barely an adult and already you think you'll never find love. That's a shame. You need to work on your confidence as it seems to be lacking. You have a long life ahead of you and in that time you're going to meet many many people.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (23 December 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntYou're 16-17...

Trust me, you'll find someone.

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A male reader, 83puremage1 United Kingdom +, writes (23 December 2010):

Don't give man. I understand how you feel since my situation is similar to yours one. Just don't give up and continue the journey. If you are tired then have a rest.

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