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writes:Due to recent events in my love life I've been hurt an have given up on women. I need some advice on how to start back. Where can I begin? Reply to this Question
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reader, cian  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 While its hard to comment on the situation, as it lacks basic detail,... I'd recommend that you start slowly. Find love for yourself again, and then work yourself back into the dating realm. Most importantly though is to get past what has happened here, and remove personal blame.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 December 2010):
The first thing you got to realize is that one woman hurting you doesn't mean that the other 3 billion women will. A lot of people get hurt a few times by a few people, and then decide this means that the whole population is against them. Not so. Yes, you've been hurt in your live life, just I was (10 times) and many others were. But that doesn't mean there's not someone out there for you. Start with that thought.
Then, take some time out and work on yourself. Go out with friends, focus on your social life, your work and hobbies. Don't sit about feeling bad. Do something. Just take your time, enjoy your own life and at some point you'll find another, better woman.
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