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writes:ok. me and my boyfriend broke up like 3 weeks ago. but i started liking one of his bestfriends. we kissed in the hallway at school and my ex was mad at me. see the thing is we dated for over a year and we love each other. how do i tell him im sorry and how do i earn his trust back? i really regret doing it though and i told him that but hes mad at me. help me out!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (23 December 2010):
 NEWS FLASH: He's more upset at his friend than you. His friend perpetrated a major betrayal when he kissed you. You're just his ex, and while it likely hurt a little seeing you kiss someone else, it was WHO you kissed that caused this reaction. Bro's before Ho's. (just a saying, I'm not calling you a ho)
Now he lost a close friend too. How many more people are you going to take away from him? No wonder he hates you.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (23 December 2010):
 You and he broke up, though. You're not dating! You kissed a guy you like, and your ex is mad at you? I'm sorry, but he doesn't have any right to expect you to remain single forever. If he wanted your lips to be his alone, he'd still be dating you. He's just being immature and that's not your fault.
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reader, cian  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 You can't expect any respect or trust back when you get with a guy's best friend. I know you mean to move on and try to still be his friend, but if you truly loved him, you'd still be with him and this situation wouldn't have occurred. To then have gotten with his friend in any means was just insult to injury.
You want the ex back as a friend (or more), call it off with the best friend.
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