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writes:I've been with my girl friend for 4 months now and I love her more then anything. But she never seems to notice me. I mean I got her a nice £8 watch for Xmas.She got me the black eyed peas album.I feel like I haven't got her enough. She doesn't talk to me as much on facebook now. We don't talk enough. I don't know what's wrong.Whether it's my fault, or her fault?Or someone else's fault.I feel like each second in our relationship i should cherish, because I feel like any minute she's going to dump me.And I don't want that to happen, we don't hug kiss or anything. there's no f***ing passion and that's the main thing in a relationship. The whole bloody relationship's falling to pieces.I can't spend time with her anymore because she's always out with her friends.I might sound a bit controlling there, but she is.I hope someone has an answer before I run out of time thx for spending your time to read this
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reader, Bobbyblues581 +, writes (24 December 2010):
Bobbyblues581 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionKc100 your advice realy helped me and her talked and she explained she didn't realize it was affecting me and now we are spending more time and talking again thanks alot
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (23 December 2010):
 Have you actually spoken to her about how you feel?
Strangers on the internet cannot tell you what is wrong with your relationship and who's fault it is - the only thing that you can do to solve this is to COMMUNICATE. That is what makes relationships work - talking.
If you feel there is something wrong then just come out and ask her what is going on. Tell her she is being distant and that you are worried about your relationship, and you want to try and work on it to make things better. See what she says - hopefully she will explain what has been going on and will put your mind at ease.
It does sound like there is something wrong, after only 4 months it should not be like this. If she is avoiding talking to you and is going out with friends instead of seeing you then clearly there is a problem - but it could be one of a million things and you will drive yourself mad thinking about all the possibilities unless you just talk to her.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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