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female
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30-35,
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writes:We'll I'm 16 years old, female and it my first year in college. So,I have Saturday classes and my classes were on Military Training Service. As far as I know, military training is quite hard but I still chose it because I've always wanted to try it out. So, every time we have drills to practice I always end up making mistakes and its quite hard for me especially I'm the guide of the platoon. So, this commander offered to help me out on the drills. I have to say he was the first officer or commander that I became close with. He was a really nice, funny and understanding man that's why my other fellow cadets to became close to him. Well there was an activity and where we had a presentation on the drill it was actually a Military day or something and it happens that I couldn't join because I didn't have a uniform. So, I saw him that morning and he said he wanted to borrow my military shoes because he forgot his .. while he was asking that he was sort of touching my hands.. but i was just ignoring it,although i was already feeling uncomfortable. So after the activity we got pictures, my friend and I were taking photos and then we happen to have our picture taken only for the two of us.. and he suddenly held my hand and while he held my hand he led it back so it wont be noticed by other people.From there I felt very unusual. And as far as I know he doesn't have a wife. And he sends me messages or group messages like love quotes and when I ask my friends if he also sent it to them.They told me that they don't receive and messages from him. And now it happens that I may be the one who he likes texting with. Which is really not good.What do you think? Do you think he has something for me? Or this is normal? I mean his close to a lot of girl students but I've never seen him hold hands with them.
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reader, cian  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 If you both are military, you had best check your fraternization policies. It could be a major offence to date, hold hands, etc...
Fact is, as long as you both are "enlisted", its a no-no. That might explain why he is hiding it so.
However, once your classes end... if you like him, consider it. If you don't, move on.
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