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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks now. Nothing is official, but he has told his friends and mum about me and everyone we work with knows about us.I am somewhat confused though. He spends alot of his time in his room and has sometimes when we see each other he is really down for no apparent reason. He tells me he is sorry and that it is not me and that he gets like this often. The thing that I do not understand is that no matter how bad a mood I am in I am cheered up instantly when I see him.One other thing that confuses me most is that he dosnt seem to want sex with me. We have only had it afew times in the past month because he says he dosnt want us to do it often because then we will get bored of one another and we will have nothing to look forward to. Although it is a nice theory, It seems abit strange to me. He also let it slip last week that he likes skinny girls, and I am a size 12 so definatly not. Now I am left wondering whether it is me or not and what is going on....Please help. I cant seem to get him to open up and its driving me crazy!
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reader, EJ  +, writes (23 December 2010):
Hi AnonymousAre you kidding me? He actually insulted you that he likes skinny girls and you still hanging on to him? You must be very insecure and like a lot of pain. Depression is a thing that pulls not just the person down but everyone around him. It has only been 6 weeks - get out while you can. If you do not enjoy being with someone, why are you still being around him? A relationship is about having fun, supporting each other to expand your horizons. The relationship you are having right now does not even sound close to it. Stop investing in it - unless you like a good breakup with all the heartache that comes with it.Have a magical day!
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