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female
age
30-35,
*unk
writes:Ohkay. I'm 16. I was dating this guy for 4 months. Things were going good. Except after sometime, i lost interest in him, as in i started feeling like i dont love him anymore. We broke up after a small fight. And that was it.I started dating someone else after that, i love him a lot. Its been 7 months of our relationship. It didnt take me much time to get over my ex. It was as if i was never sad about the fact that we broke up.But now, for the past one month i feel as if i've started liking him again. I love my boyfriend very much. But i just can't understand why after 6 long months i've started feeling for my ex again!?!Its like, throughout the 6 months, i remember him begging me to take him back. He gave me more than enough chances to take him back. But i just said no.Now he has a girlfriend. He's very serious about her. Loves her a lot. He's gonna leave school in a few months. And i feel this will all go away after he leaves....But i can't take this...my mind keeps playing memories of us when we were dating. And all those times when he gave me chances to take him back and i refused!I don't know what to do!?!
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reader, rememberthismoment_  +, writes (24 December 2010):
 You my dear are sixteen, so young with a life so full of ambitions, dreams and most of all raging hormones. Boys at your age do tend to come and go, it's rare to be with someone your whole life these days. I think you should just have fun with your life and no I don't condone cheating on your boyfriend, that's never good and can lead to commitment issues when you're older. But if you wanna play the field - girl you go and play it! If you're into your ex so what, but let your boyfriend know your real feelings as soon as you can because this could get so much worse if not. Good luck honey :)
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