Jealous girlfriend , my fault I hit her ?

A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend is bi polar and jealous. She caught me with porn and got really mad about it she wol't let me have female friend and I don't care about that because I don't want her to have male friends so we made a deal no friends of oppisite sexes. she also got mad because she found pics of my ex I forgot about in my room and that I did talk on dating sites while we were dating but only before we started having sex and that was only like 3 weeks. I know I should not have done that but she gets so mad and cries all the time. sometimes I hit her I know I should not do that but I love her and she pisses me off because she thinks I will leave her for some reason. she also got mad because I didn't feel like answering the phone one time on my break at work becasue I was with my friends she said I was hideing something if I can't answer the phone just to say hi. She also dose not want to go around my family the first time was my fault because my cousin was drunk and tried to grab her ( she talks shit about this all the time saying I don't protect her) I pushed his hand away, the secound time my uncles wife told me to look at the sexy ladies on tv and she told me she wanted to leave that - she felt upset and wanted to go I ignored her and looked at the women on tv and she rolled her eyes and stood up to leave i followed her and was talking in the doorstep she pulled my sleeve to say lets go and I beat the shit out of her pulling her up the steps at my families house as my aunt and uncle tried to pull me off her. I really need help with my temper but its her fault she strats it. what should I do ?

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