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writes: okay so i am 16 in high school i like this bot in my year as well we are both 16 and we are both single .i like him but i don't think he would ever see anything in a girl like me because i don't pile my make up on i do't wear my skirts that short i have a decent sized clevage but well..okay so apart from my looks.. i know we are good friends and we get on really well but i wouldn't want to ruin that by asking him out but .i am asking ..Do you think we should just stay friends?Do looks really matter that much?What if i ask him and he says no ?please help me out here Reply to this Question
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reader, Blod  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 First off, looks don't matter. I'm sure you're much more attractive than you think! Don't put yourself down! You're already friends which is good. It shows that he likes your personality. If you get on well, then you have a good base for a relationship. It just depends if he sees you romantically or not.
I think if there's a chance he may fancy you too, then you might as well risk it. Just go steady with it. Try some light flirting to see how he responds. If you get the feeling that he's flirting back then you might as well risk it. You can either build up the flirting so that you feel more confident about how you both feel, or ask him out.
If he doesn't like you back, then that doesn't mean the end of your friendship. Respond carefully so that you don't embarrass him or yourself and you could probably carry on as normal more or less. Just take it slowly and let things develop gradually.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): Don't change to be the girl he wants because he is just shallow which to me points to immaturity. Find a guy who likes you the way you are, then you'll feel comfortable around him.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 Try flirting with him. See how he reacts, if you pick up on him not being into you then stay friends, if he reacts positively then you can progress you relationship to the next stage.
You could ask him out if you feel brave enough. If he really does value you as a friend then it shouldn't be too awkward if he says no. It's always worth a shot, you wouldn't want to find out years from now him telling you how much he used to like you but was never brave enough to ask you out, would you?
Good Luck
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