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writes:my best friend knew i liked this guy. i had liked him for a long time. he was my firstkiss and i really really liked him. then she started talking to him. and they started hanging out. and i was obviously mad about it. i would get really depressed looking when she would bring him up, and she knew it, cause she tried "texting" me about it. saying she "knows" how i feel and doesnt want to hurt me...but then continuueeddd to talk to him. well now theyre going out and i cant talk to her anymore. things arent the same. and i didnt stop talking to her because of the boy necassarily. but because she would do such a thing to me and i cant trust her with anything anymore. i would really like to get our friendship back, but im not sure thats a good idea, what do i do?
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (24 December 2010):
 has she ever done anything like this before? i mean not only with guys but with other things too or has she always been a good friend? we cant always stop ourselves from liking someone. why did this guy not get with you? did you let him know you liked him? i wouldnt break up with a good friend and you will find loads of other guys to like in the future. my advice would be to forgive her and be her friend again. let her know your dissapointed by her doing this and if you find it hurts you when she wants to talk about him let her know that you would rather she didnt until you get over this. if she does this to you again in the future though i would consider breaking up with her. i hope you can both be friends again
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): Trust should be one the main important aspects in any relationship, really. I mean, why would you want to hang around somebody you don't feel entirely comfortable with? She sounds incredibly two-faced.
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reader, babydontforget +, writes (23 December 2010):
I have the same problem with one of my friends. I was with this guy and she kissed him the one time I wasn't around. I'm still friends with her and have forgiven her. But yeah, I'm still iffy about her around my guy. But all you really have to do is try to forgive her and try to gain that truth with her again, or talk to her about it. Just ask her if you can talk to her about it and try to be honest. and if she's a real friend, she'll understand. Good luck!
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