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writes:Major Issue, please help.Me and my boyfriend have been together for so long. Almost our 2 years anniversary. And I want to get him something special. But, the only thing that comes to mind, is sex. We're both virgins, and he loves my body, but It's just so nerve racking to think of what could happen. I know I want to, just my worry wart self is taking over and I don't know what to do... Any advice?
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 Keep it in my mind as a possibility. The moment you tell yourself that's what's definitly going to happen and you have to go through with it you'll never stop worrying. Don't put that kind of pressure on yourself. Get him a little gift so that if you decide not to go through with it you have a back up plan. Just do what you normally would... kiss, cuddle and let things progress naturally. If you decide you want to take things further then great. If not don't beat yourself up about it. Just go with what feels comfortable for both of you.
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