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36-40,
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writes:My boyfriend has just moved in with a lad mate of his. Problem is, the friend doesn't seem to like me. I am a really nice person and have never done anything to him that could possibly upset him. However he ignores me, invites my bf to big group outings in front of me and doesnt seem to invite me or even care than I am there. He also says things to my bf apparently like "it's a shame you have a girlfriend else we could bring girls back" in a jokey way. I find it awkward to go round and visit my bf as I end up leaving feeling upset and sometimes quite angry. I have explained how I feel to my bf but he doesn't see it. But I know it's there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): Sounds like he's jealous and afraid of losing your boyfriend's company. Have you thought of bringing some of your female friends round, see if he likes one of them?
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 More likely he's jealous of the fact that your BF has a GF. Talking about "single's" type activities they could be doing is a tell tale sign of that. You're "stealing" his friend away.
He's just immature. Don't let him bug you. He doesn't matter.
Does your BF treat you well? Does he show you he loves you?
It would be very awkward for him to confront his friend about this, but he should if it really bothers you. Something along the lines of, "Be nice to her man, she's my girlfriend." Really though, that would make problems worse if this guy is as immature as I suspect.
Everyone doesn't need to like you. Just be yourself and focus on your BF. He's the guy who matters anyway.
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