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writes:Heyyy. I've dating my boyfriend for about 10 months. I'm a virgin and he's not. He hasn't relly pushed sex on me but I know he really wants to have sex with me, so sometimes it's a little hard to stop when we're together. Anyway, for Christmas, a bunch of my friends are going camping for a few days. Everyone who's going are couples so the couples are going to be sleeping together. I really want to go, but I kind of feel like putting myself in this situation could be a bad idea. I'm just conflicted. What do you think?
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (24 December 2010):
 I think your gut is telling you it's a bad idea, and I think that instinct is absolutely right. Sleeping with him is just tempting fate. Don't put yourself in a situation where you can be tempted to go against your better judgment. Worse, he could very easily interpret the situation as a green light.
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reader, JustinNki +, writes (24 December 2010):
 10 months in a long time!!!
If he didnt really like you, he would be out of the picture.
I like this guy already just by saying he's just hangin out with you and no pressure, FOR TEN MONTHS.
Just make sure, your ready, dont rush even if its TEN YEARS of dating and u dont want too.
Honostly, sex is not that big of a deal, Im a real sexual person, but I wanted a month (which felt a lot longer) after dating this one girl to loose my virginity. And it brought a deeper connection in our relationship. lol.
but dont stress about it! dont think about it too much. It should be something that naturally happens, when time and both you guys are ready.
Good luck, have fun give us the deets!
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reader, college22 +, writes (24 December 2010):
You could go but you trust your self but do you trust that he well have control... maybe you can go and see what happens
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reader, billrocket +, writes (24 December 2010):
your trip-can happen,are you strong enough,in your desire,not to have sex.is your boyfriend able to resisr not going all the way.if yes to those geastions,then go-if not-dont go.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (24 December 2010):
 if you do want to go camping you can go and you dont have to have sex. i think you should talk about this with your boyfriend first though so that he knows what will happen (or NOT happen). only you know how you feel and you must have some knowledge of how your boyfriend feels about you. do not do anything you dont want to do. you get ONE virginity in life and when its gone its gone so make sure you make the right choice! if you do have sex though, just make sure you do it safely.xx
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reader, punkgirl14 +, writes (24 December 2010):
 i would go ......... as long as you trust yourself then go and have fun but if you know that ur gonna give in to temptation then dont.. like dirtball said .. so go and have funn!:)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (23 December 2010):
 If you're not ready for sex, then stick with that. Going could put you in a situation where temptation gets the better of you. Do you trust yourself enough to stop?
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