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female
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36-40,
*iley
writes:I cut all the contacts with my ex when he told me about his new gf and said he was very happy together . But he wanted to stay with me as a friend.I denied saying that it may spoil his present relationship.But He insisted me to keep in touch with him.Then I took a step.I deleted my profile from facebook and changed my contact no.And did not get my Ph no any of our mutual friend.I thought I would go for NC rule for 2nd time.(1st Time I broke it because he contact me and said he was missing me badly.and when I showed him I was still waiting for him, his behaviour changed towards me and he started hurting me,abusing me,palying game with my emotions etc.)I am in NC period now from one month.But I dont know what to do next to get him back.But strange is that he also deleted his profile from facebook. I dont know wheather he tried to contact me or not.How to reinitiate contact with him without losing my self esteem so that i can make him regret dumping me?what to do to make him regret and regain my self esteem so that he can not take me for granted any more and crawl back in my life?
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reader, StrayTogether.com  +, writes (3 August 2010):
 You can't. Plain and simply, you cannot make him regret not being with you.
Success is the best revenge. Move on. You may move on and do so thinking that it's your best bet to getting him back, but once you've done it, you'll realize it's the best thing for so many other reasons.
Take the time to pamper yourself.
Fondly,
Jill
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reader, Serpico +, writes (2 August 2010):
Success and clean living are the best revenge IMO.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (2 August 2010):
 I suggest you just focus on getting over him. You broke up and he's already got another girlfriend. Move on with your life. If he wants you back he will find a way to contact you. Do not subject yourself to crawling back to him. He does not appear to be worth it.
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reader, twinkletoes30  +, writes (2 August 2010):
 sweetie - best thing to do is forget this man, forget revenge, making him regret leaving you. The only thing thats going to help you regain your self esteem is walking away, and moving on.
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