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anonymous
writes:i've been dating this guy for 3 wks.. everything ws perfect we got along great, i was really falling for him, we had plans to go away this weeknd. problem is he hs a bad reputation is known for doing drugs and drinking and gettin nasty nd crazy!! but i have never seen this side of him. i told him i dont care what people say , he feels that people will tell me things about him and break us up. it's a major concern to him it's our main topic of conversation when we go out. i've told him ovr and over it does not bother me, problem is it bothers him alot... our last night together he slept over and was talking about future things we were going to do, he woke up in the morning kussed me goodby, and went home. i calle him later that day and he didnt return my calls all day, he finally called me the next morning and told me he didnt want to see me anymore, and cancelled our trip. i was blown away everything seemed perfect. he said because of his reputation we couldnt get past it. i am so upset i really liked him alot, i dont no what to think or do about this.. help...
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reader, Dr.Ski  +, writes (2 August 2010):
Let him be him, at the end of the day, he clearly has a guilty conscience, otherwise he would not have been bothered by what people say, in despite of the fact that you said you did not care what people said. So my advice too you is too let him go, find someone else. You could have been in danger there, and had let it go on longer! (if he was too take drugs or get abusive) So you have been saved! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): It looks like you have been used. Whatever happens dont go back because this one is leading to nothing good.
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