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writes:What did my girlfriend mean by this? let me explain, so I was kind of clingy before, I have done really well since we had a discussion about it, I said I would not text no where near enough as I used to!, its been 3 days (we dont live together) tonight before she goes to bed she sent 3 text messages, let me explain how it went because I am confused, it went like this(she text 1st)Her: Hi how you feeling not texting as much, your doing to well!Me: I am doing well, I am just getting on with itHer: Its weird its like the texts are pretty sameish, nothing interesting to say?Me: Prob because we aint done nothing exciting?, what do you mean?Her: Dunno, going to bed babe, looking forward to seeing you tomorrowNow I am one to worry and think to much, this is part of the problem, but what the hell does she mean by what she said???? I am a bit concerned, does she mean were drifting apart? Im confused, HELP!! James x
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (2 August 2010):
 You shouldn't read anything into those messages, because there's no hidden meaning anywhere in them.
The way I see it is that even though she felt you texted a lot and were clingy before, the fact that you have stopped now and have tried to 'control' yourself, is a change she might not like, even if she wanted you to change. I'm sure that even though you might have texted a lot, she did like the attention you were giving her. Now that you've stopped or minimized this behaviour, she's the one contacting you, asking what's new etc...
The more you pull away, the closer she'll try to get. When you get too close, she pulls away. Try and keep a balance.
Read the last line 'looking forward to seeing you tomorrow' - this to me means that all is well.
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (2 August 2010):
 I think she means that nothing different goes on. Like nothing changes and she might want to go forward. I didn't get any hint of drifting apart, in fact she texted u first so that's not drifting apart. my guess is she wants to have more fun with you than you have now.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (2 August 2010):
 Sounds like she is getting bored with your relationship. Try not texting for 3 weeks and see what she says. Sometimes taking a longer break can help.
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