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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi there ive recently gone through a relationship break where i find myself still in the same house as my girlfriend or ex... we have been living together for 3 years now and it got to the point where we got frustrated and irritated with eachother due to her been insecure about her weight and my parents not been happy with her.. we have been living in a flat at the back of the main house where my parents live i work and drive, she studies and i get her around alot cut a long story short we got into a fight she said she needed a break i am now in the situation where she copes with this break by been another person trying to laugh it off or treating me like a friend etc we are on good terms but i feel everyday i try be the nice person to but the heart ache of not been close with her and intimate is eating away at me and making me think about what im doing. she cant move out as she doesnt work and her closet family is in another city my parents feel as though they have supported her enough and want her out at the end of the year which for me is another 4 months of seeing her move on with her life. im the type of person who doesnt like to intentionally hurt someone or be the bad guy and i feel i cant move on cause i still love her and want to be with her her motherr decided she might have to move to the other city where her other family is. but i dont understand what i am supposed to do until now when she still lives with me and has no where to go and i have to see her everyday knowing that she has moving on and trying distance our closesness we had what makes it even harder is that if we go out we still go out together and she will joke about been single publically and i stand there and feel like such an idiot still wanting to love her.. please help me
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (4 August 2010):
 Ouch no one seems to want her..Look she's got to go its ur parents flat and their house their rules..i understand u feel bad for her and u want to help and solve her problems..But u cant help someone unless when they dont even want to help themselves. U cant move on bc she's still there right in front of u..Give her a deadline of when to move out (asap) and maybe with the time and space u guys can work something out one day
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