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writes:I'm a 16 year-old girl.A guy liked me for a year and showed it but I was quite shy, and ever since the start of the school year (February) he's ignored me. Eyes just glued straight ahead. Avoids talking to me/looking at me in every way.So now it's August and I know I waited way too long. I regret it so much though, I've liked him for most of last year (while he liked me) and all of this year, which is about a year and a quarter. I've been hurting for months now but I just can't forget him. :(The other day I was looking at him and he slowed down actually stared back, but then looked away quickly and said goodbye to the teacher straight away. He's gone back to ignoring me ever since then.But the day before that he was staring at a girl as she walked out of class and said "Hi __(name)" as she walked back in (even though she's taken). So I'm pretty sure it is too late.I was thinking of slipping a note or something about letting him know and being sorry about how things turned out, but because of the time factor and that episode with that girl, I just don't know if he's worth it anymore. I just don't want to regret it, so then I'll know I've done what I can. Is that wrong?I'm just so sick of hurting and feeling like this. Should I move on? But I know that's gonna take a long time. What steps should I take to let go?Any advice would be great. What do you think is going on with him and what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): Im very shy, too, so I know it's hard to get the courage to talk to him. I agree, though, that you may be blowing some things out of proportion. The incident with that girl meant nothing, I'm sure. You should just strike up a conversation with him. Get to know him, and let him get to know you. Just try to relax and be yourself with him. Once you guys have a pretty good friendship, then maybe you can tell him how you feel. I dont know, thats just my suggestion as to how to go about this. I know that feeling of regret and it's not a fun thing to live with. So just give it a shot! You don't really have anything to lose. :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): He said hi to a girl and she was taken already :o *FAKE GASP* (I hope you understand the reference of this sarcastic comment). Anyways you should just talk to him! He's probably doesn't know you at all cos all you do is stare at him and not speak! Why don't you go up to him and say *hi name*! GOSH you're ridiculous.
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