A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: Hi everyone. I am bi and I love this girl I am with. But this guy who is younger keeps flirting with me. I was wondering if I should invite him to a threesome or just live to seperate lives. Please help!!
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reader, StrayTogether.com +, writes (3 August 2010):
I think it depends on what you want the future to hold. Are you looking for sexual playmates or a long-term relationship with one or the other?
If the former, are you or they into swinging? Is a threesome something in which THEY would readily partake?
If the latter, you need to pick and stick to it.
In the end, I believe the answer is much more complicated than all this, but you asked a simple question and I'm attempting a simple answer. :)
Fondly,
Jill
A
male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 August 2010):
If you like these people more than just friends, this is not a good idea. This could really complicate matters. You need to pick one or the other.
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male
reader, The Realist +, writes (2 August 2010):
I think that it may not be the best idea. I've had a threesome myself but I could not see it being with two people who I'm assuming have never met and who are both interested in you only. It would be best to date one of them first and then bring it up in the relationship but you have to pick one of them and not let the threesome ruin both relationships.
If you are not too worried about losing these people or what they think of you then it might work out to ask them for the threesome but becareful not to get caught in the love triangle.
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