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writes:My boyfriend and I spend tine together all the time and we always have fun. We know that we cant be around each other 24/7 because we tend to get annoyed with each other and argue. Last week we spend time Sunday- Thursday after work going out to dinner watching movies. Just having fun then the weekend came and he hung out with his friends. I did the same and hung out with my girls. I just didnt have that much fun because Id rather be with him. I know that women tend to be more emotional then men but why do I get so mad when he wants to hang with the guys instead of me? Im not afraid that hes cheating on me, because I just see that, not saying I would put it past him but we have been together for almost 4 years and I would know if he's interested in another female. I dont know why I have such selfish ways! How do I change them? Reply to this Question
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (2 August 2010):
 It's healthy to have time apart in a relationship. you need to find a really good hobby. You can't be with him every second of the day so get over it or you'll drive him away.
Besides a man CAN NOT be your whole life. he has to compliment the life that you already have. so find something else too do. too much time together can completely ruin a relaltionhip.
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reader, Lookingforwisdom  +, writes (2 August 2010):
My girlfriend is exactly the same as you, you're not being selfish and I'm sure it will only compliment him that you want to spend so much time with him (that's how I feel anyway). That being said, you obviously have to let him see some of his friends and have some independence, otherwise you will be getting too possessive and maybe become too clingy for his liking. All you can do is think rationally about this and accept he has a right to see his mates, and be happy for him when he enjoys himself.
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