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writes:I think this guy might be obsessed with me. He told me he wanted to marry me and take me away on holidays when he first met me, and recently, i pretended that this other guy was my boyfriend, just to get this guy off my back , and the guy who i think is obsessed with me said " so who is going to be the best man at your wedding ? " to the guy who was pretending to be my boyfriend. I thought that was a really weird thing to say !. I dont know anyone else who says that kind of thing, especially as he had only just met this guy, so even if he really had been my boyfriend, he wouldnt have known how long we had been together or anything. I dont feel that he is genuine though as he used to have a facebook page and he called some women on there " babes " and told some of them that he wished he was their boyfriend, and that they should have given him their phone number. I guess he seems pretty desperate too. I cant really weigh him up, as he seems to like me by how much he has contacted me too and wanted to meet up with me. I thought he seemed ok at first but now i'm having doubts about him being genuine . Do you agree ?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): I agree with u totally this guy seems to be strange but by the sounds of things he is telling u and plenty of other women these things because he is only after 1 thing if I was u I would try to stay as far away as possible from him as I could and have no contact wat so ever wit him and he shud get the message and be careful!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): This guy sounds like a creep and not very genuine. Go with your gut instinct; it seems correct!
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reader, midnight juliet  +, writes (2 August 2010):
 I completely agree with you.In my opinion you need to do what you can to stay away from this man,because you dont know how far this obsession could go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): Stay away, something isn't right with him right now
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reader, nikki90 +, writes (2 August 2010):
i agree dump this dude and if he doesnt leave get a restraning order against him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): Yep, this guy is a weirdo maximo...and I agree, he seems desperate! Just stay away from him and (with tact) cut ties, he seems not only like the clingy sort but rather too, unfit for any sort of relationship.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (2 August 2010):
 Hes infactuated with you, it will die off eventually. It depends on if you have any feelings for him at all. Dont be pressured you have your own mind.
Its possible hes never had a real girlfriend before too so doesnt know how to react.
He probably still lives with his mum?
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