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writes:I'm in high school and everyone always goes on about how guys my age only think about sex. The other day in our summer class, a couple of my guy friends and I were talking and one mentioned that he recently realized how every time he sees a female who is a teenager or older at work (he works at a pet store), he imagines having sex with her.Do boys outgrow this? Or do they usually grow into men who think about sex all the time? Do guys imagine having sex with random girls who pass them during the day? And if they DO then does that mean the random guys I pass are imagining having sex with me?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): In the order you asked them:
No.
Yes.
Yes.
Probably.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): At your age, you're going through a lot of changes, emotionally and physically, that are causing thoughts of a sexual nature. Does it ever stop? Well, my man is in his 50s and it's on his mind more often than most people would think.
It should slow down, though, once your body changes settle down.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (2 August 2010):
 While it isn't possible to know what men are thinking about all the time, it's unlikely to be a very accurate generalization.
Sure, a lot of men (or women) for that matter are prone to thinking about sex a lot. And there's nothing totally unnatural about a human sizing up another as a potential mate.
That doesn't mean that EVERY man who sees you is thinking on those lines. There are perverts in the world, of course, and with enough experience you'll be able to know who they are. Most might just be casting an admiring glance :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): No they don't outgrow it.Yes they imagine having sex with you all the time.Unless the discipline their thinking, which they can, it never goes away. Most men don't believe they can change it.Yes, your husband and boyfriends will do it toward other women while they tell you they love you.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (2 August 2010):
 That's not how all men are, and even those that are like that now won't necessarily always be like that, but yes, some men never grow up. As per personal experience, my friends tend not to be as shallow as that. Personally, I most certainly DO NOT think about sex with girls as they walk by. But who knows, I might by an exception to the rule.
But with all things in life, it varies. Men like sex, but the level of obsession varies man to man.
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reader, Kevin.st1  +, writes (2 August 2010):
Well, as a 18 year old guy, I think I'm fairly qualified to answer your question
I know personally thawed is on my mind most ofthe time, but I have friends who are alot older and they say their sex drive is more focused. They are still just as Horney, but only towards their gf....
The simple fact is that guys our age are Horney, and alot of us find it hard to suppress those feelings. However, most guys DO grow out of it when their hormones settle down
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