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writes:HELP! Ok, so this is an awkward topic for me but I have to tell someone and I'm not very good at sharing my feelings. So, I know this guy, but when I say know him, what I actually mean is he was my form tutor at school for about a year. But now he's left and I think I love him. I think this because everyday since he left I have been quite down and I've been trying to find him everywhere because I can't think about my life without him. He is the nicest guy ever and because he's a PE teacher he's also really fit! And when we talked to eachother I feel like I've known him for ages and I feel safe and comfortable, like I can be myself around him. And the thing is I think that he likes me as well because he would sometimes stare at me when we were in form and when I looked over he'd either look away or keep looking and just give me a flash of his gorgeous smile and he'd make my heart melt! We always laughed together and it just felt like this was the way it had always been and the way it was meant to be! Sometimes there would be instances where we would throw eachother knowing looks and that would keep me smiling all day! Whenever I saw him I got butterflies! And I really want to get together with him! It wouldn't be that wierd because I'm 15 and he's about 27, so its not really that much of a difference! So, I'm asking you how I should persue this relationship because I'm sure he likes me and sometimes when I was talking to him he'd stare at my mouth and listen really intently - and from what I've read before that usually means that they want to kiss you! And there would be a reason for him not to - because he was my teacher. But, he's not anymore, so realistically we could get together now! So, what do you think? Because I could do with some help!
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reader, ManAfterChrist  +, writes (2 August 2010):
 If he is interested, he shouldn't be. 15 and 27 is a large gap at that age. He's almost twice your age.
Don't pursue it, and don't assume he likes you. He probably just thought you were a great student. Also, you aren't in love with him. Love and butterflies are not one and the same. You do have a crush on your teacher, which is pretty normal for people your age. But no relationship will form.
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