He has played me and I am only allowing it because without him I would be homeless! What should I do?

A female age 51-59, *othalious41 writes:

Iam in a situation so complicated. I met someone who is a multi slave owner BDSM and has been for over 22 years. Hes has multiple partners. and is fascinated with the lifesyle. Eats lives worships. I was homeless and came here in return had to sleep with him until income came in. and when I started feeling deep feelings and he in return told me the same thing made me feel as if He cared and was so into me until I started feeling uncomfortable females coming over trying to get me to be a slave and follow the lifestyle and hard headed and controlling myself I started calling him out on what wasnt ok, and he would reverse it to being my fault and just sneaky, on the computer 24/7 chatting with other females lies and I keep falling for it, he had other intentions and I was nieve enough to believe him until he didnt get what he wanted then all changed. I invisible and only good for sex, cooking, taking care of him. letters i write never feed back or replys just acts as if my things in life dont mean anything now. Im just one who he knows will do whatever for him. Iam so confused and angry know I should flee the situation but im homeless . His ways with woman are a dog in heat. he just played me and still is and im allowing it. what do I do? thank you.

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