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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been in a relationship for the last six months with lets say a guy named k .. the first few months were great but everyhting slowly became "not so perfect'. My image of him was completely different. Anywho for the past three years i have had an on again off again kind of relationship with B. He is my mothers great friend's son. The first year we had our fling lasted a few months and the he moved further away in colorado.. then he came back that winter and we had our four days of heaven then he left again, then we kept in contact more often texted every other day called eachother then he decided to move back to where i am living. That's when things changed for me i thought i was ready for a serious committment with him but it wasn't the right timing and he was truely heart broken and we stopped speaking for about five- six months and he moved back to where he was. Then november of last year i went to visit his mother and that's where he is staying , the first day we did not speak or acknowledge eachother but then the rest of the time i spent there we reconnected and everyhting felt so right and i apologized for screwing him over. After i left we didn't speak again and when i tried to contact him he would ignore me so i moved on and met my current boyfriend. Then a few months into my new relationship this year i contacted B and he actually answered and told me he was in denver colorado so from that without a doubt we decided to meet up . So me and B went to dinner and i expressed my feelings for him knowing that we were always going to have something and i have alot of love and care for him and would liek to start off somewhere he agreed and we kissed goodnight... he also promised to stay in contact with me and visit denver twice every two weeks. So after feeling guilty and seeing K my current boyfriend the next day there was a weird vibe with him and he told me as we were driving that he had been sleeping with anoteh girl for the past two weeks... I know right then i should of left but having love for him too i have him a second chance. Well i havent heard from B for the past few months and i have tried to contact him i have very strong feelings for him but i am in a sticky situation with my current boyfriend.I would like B to know how strongly i feel towards him but ever since i screwed him over nothing has really been set in stoneso i guess my question is what do i do ?!?! try and contact b to see if we can go anywhere with out friendship/relationshipor forgett about him and stick with my current boufriend.
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reader, Dr.Ski  +, writes (2 August 2010):
Girl, Do not let K walk all over you! SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER GIRL? WOW, he is blind. You sound like a caring person! so throw him off the tracks! you sound better off with B, he seem's nicer, and much more close to family.. Dont let B slip away, he seem's like the best option for you! Break it off with K and call him trash for me! x
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