He's avoiding me because he doesn't want to take my virginity before I'm ready

A female age 30-35, *amousLoverGirl writes:

Hey guys! Well, I've been friends with my friend, Mark 4 about 3 mon. He liked me from the start but I didn't really like him til about a mon. after I met him. Our families went camping 2gether and we talked a lot and pretty, I think deep. But we didn't have sex or kiss or anything like that. In the conversations sex talk did come up but I told him I don't want 2 have sex til I'm married. Anyways, after camping he went 2 CA 4 almost a mon. B4 he left I was wondering if he really did like me. He talked 2 his cousin, whom I know. She told me that he really likes me but he wants 2 keep his distance cuz he doesn't trust himself with me, he wants 2 protect me from having sex with him. But I still want him 2 b around me and show me that he does like me kinda chase after me, ya know? We aren't dating cuz I have 2 wait til I'm 17 and we are both 15. Should I tell him I like him so that maybe he'll wait 4 me til I can date? What should I do? What should I say?

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