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*helbyy-x
writes:I started dating my boyfriend about two years ago and we were together for 6 months, but it was long distance I only got to see him on weekends. we broke up for 4 months then got back together and have been together now for 13 months. I used do want nothing to do with anyone else I just wanted to be withhim 24 hours a day. It pissed me off when he chose his friends and hobbys over me. So I broke up with him and now we havnt been together for like 8 months but we basically live with each other. So were together just without the title. Now it's like hes the one constantly wanting to be with me but I met this guy which used tone his friend and to really like the things he does and he makes me laugh and makes me happy but i'm so scared to just start over and the one I live with does EVERYTHING for me and after being together for 2 years and living together about a year and a half it's scary to wonder what life would be like without him. But we fight so much over stupid small stuff. It drives me crazy. If I tell him that he's upsetting me or something he always says well now you know how I feel. He always trys to make him self sound innocent but he also says I make myself sound innocent. We've been through so much but I think I'm slowly falling for this other guy but at the same time I don't know if I can leave the one I'm with now. But whatever I end up doing I don't want to hurt either one of them and I would like to stay friends with the one I don't choose to be with. My situation is so messed up I just don't know what to do anymore. I can't even get away from the one I live with to see this other guy to get to know him better but I miss him so much! HELP ME!!!
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reader, Shelbyy-x +, writes (8 September 2010):
Shelbyy-x is verified as being by the original poster of the question I'm happily with my boyfriend of 2 years! We just needed to work things out and that's what we did. :) now I think we just gotta figure some other things out.. He has been making me feel unwanted lately... :(
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 August 2010):
 Wow, I would have a lil talk with ur family that they cant pick and choose who u date, that is your choice, ur a young adult ur a big enough girl to make that decision on ur own. That being destructive and hateful isnt the answer nor is vandalism. U need to flat out tell this guy ur not happy, and u dont want to be with him that u want to see other ppl. Ur family cant control u breaking it off and poof he's gone. Now they cant control ur dating life anymore. Just sit down with ur family and be an adult about it. As always best of luck to u!
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reader, Shelbyy-x +, writes (6 August 2010):
Shelbyy-x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI live at my parents he lives here with me. But pays rent at an apartment. My family is trying to force me to be with him. If I go somewhere they tell him where and when I come home they tell him to come over. I had a friend over once and my cousin didn't like that I was with a guy so my cousin poured a whole bottle of chew spit all over his vehicle.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (5 August 2010):
Move out of the other guy's house before u start dating someone new. One it will turn very awkward because u guys broke up and still live together. Secondly do it before he finds out and kicks u out. Move back home with your rents or another relative's house. You cant have both your going to have to pick one or the other.
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reader, SofiaRose  +, writes (2 August 2010):
Follow your heart, try explaining exactly how you feel. Love will always find a way
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