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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im close friends with this guy i met about a month an a half ago. We go clubbing together most thursdays and some saturdays.I realised i like him after a couple of weeks of knowing him.I got really drunk one saturday and was really flirty with him (this was before i actaully even liked him). He was being abit distant the next day, so i aplosgied and told him why i act like that sometimes (basically becuasse when im drunk i try to feel better about myself, and stuff)Evereything was ok after that anyways, then after the next time we went to town, he was texting me lots a few days after one night being really flirty and saying hes really cold at the bus stop and wants to be in my bed cuddling me. and whatnot :/(he was drunk, and i know reading between the lines, hes was probably thinking about sex)So obvisley this made me think i have abit of a chance with him, and that he thought im attractive.Yet when we went to town on saturday night (me him and his other mate)He said im like his sister :/He was saying 'where are all the hot girls in this bar?' and i gave him a little smile, like you do when your abit hurt. and he was like apart from you.Then on the way to the next bar, he said to his other mate, he has really high standards when i comes to girls. When we was havin another drink, we was flirting and having a right laugh, and i kinda went to kiss him. :(but he wasnt having any of it, so it turned into a hug.Hes just made me feel like im not good enough, just like every other guy does. Im alrght for sex but nothing else. Not good enough for his high standards. I understand if you dont like someone in that way, but i have another guy friend who i see as a brother and there is no way drunk or sober, i would ever text him being like that.I want to tell him how i feel about him being like this with me and making me feel like sh** :[Its proper on my chest and its really upsetting me, do you think its ok to tell him that hes hurt me? (im not doing it to make him realise he likes me r anything, i just feel hurt and want to get it off my chest to him)Thankyou, to anyone that answers
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reader, MAX D +, writes (2 August 2010):
 You may not think it right now,but there are some genuine guys out there,which dont use girls only for sex.A true relationship is built on trust,of course you were hurt by his comments and if it is bothering you that much then you should tell him and get it off your chest if nothing else you will feel a hell of a lot better.Ihope this has been of some help.Max D.
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